It is necessary to pay attention to; is a separate individual in front of me and does not have to attract me. One should always tell him this and the other person should look from that perspective. It is necessary to think "I am not her mother, I am not her father, someone with an expectation of happiness that I live with". At the same time, love, compassion and understanding; key words. Of course we can talk about our daily stresses, we can discuss them whenever possible, but we do not have the right to hurt the other person. It should not be done.